Flash Movies Parameters

I am using DW 8.0.2 and have created a page with three flash movies in
layers. The layers are hide-show activating each layer by click a button.

http://www.dreams-catcher.net/flashtest/ft_03.php

I know the movies are playing when hidden, as I can hear sounds on buttons 2
and 3 that should not be there. How do I setup parameters so that the
movies only play when the button for that movie is clicked??

I would also like to have controls for each movie so the user a stop or
restart the movie at any time. I assume this can be done.

Any help would be appreciated, thank you.