frame-set problem

Hi,

I'm having the following problem. I have made a site for a freinds company.
I used frames to divide the design form the actual content.
In one frame I have a player that automatic plays an streaming asf-file when
the frame is loaded. No people have complaind about the time that it takes
to load the page (when connecting whit an analog modem). I tested and
removing the player solves the problem. My guess is that because the
streaming audio-file is also loading the rest is going slow. Is it somehowe
possible to regulate the order in wich the frames load (or at least that the
frame with the asf-player load's as last).

My guess is that it would be possible with the unload-command in the
body-tag of the frameset html-file. But I'm not sure. I don't really have
experience with the onload-command and don't know how it must be used in
this case.

So I hope some of you folks could help me out.

With kind regards,
Richard Hupkens